I was having one of those months. Even though my calendar told me there was enough time to fulfill my commitments, my body and spirit were telling me otherwise.
All good things.
When I can help, I want to help. It’s hard for me to come up with excuses to get out of doing things that matter. It is in my nature to jump in and give my all, especially when it is for a good cause.
My spirit wasn’t at rest. I was feeling unsettled, foggy, tense. My muscles were aching, my temper was short and I felt resentment creeping up in me.
My heart was crying out to God for an answer, for help, for a life boat.
(Enter the still, small voice of a gentle Savior)
So I sat down and made a priority list. I have never done this in my life. I have had a vague internal list of priorities in my head, but never anything concrete… never anything I could point to and say “No. I can’t do that. See? It’s not on my list.”
I kept my list to ten items. Of course, these ten items have sub-categories, so really my list is a lot longer than ten, but setting the limit at ten things made me feel sane again. What made my list? Here they are:
1. My relationship with God
2. My Marriage
3. My Family
4. Serving Others
8. My Blog
9. Young Lives
Let me make it really clear… ALL OF THESE THINGS ARE REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME. The things that aren’t so important to me didn’t make the list (unless they are a sub-category). This list is a work in progress, and I am asking God for help in any edits I make. During this process I have learned a few things.
1. My current lifestyle doesn’t match up to my priorities list. My relationship with God may be number one on my list, but there are days when God gets only the leftovers of my time and energy, if He gets anything at all. I may say that my family is more important than my church, but when I go days without spending quality time with my kids because of church commitments, something is wrong. This current list may not reflect where I am currently am, but it gives me a guideline to follow for where I want to end up.
2. Numbering my priorities gives me power. Mostly, it gives me power to say no. If something isn’t on my list, unless it is really important, I’m not investing my time into it. Of course, my priority list must be in alignment with scripture and how I feel God leading me. If I make my blog number one on my list and say no to other things, I need God to hit me over the head with something. My priorities must align with His.
3. A priority list helps me get organized. Even though I was busy all the time before I made my list, I didn’t really understand just how much I was committed to. Putting it on paper was my wake-up call to get my life organized. I made some changes on my calendar, made a decision to eliminate some distractions, and got busy.
I’m really thankful God led me to take a step back and examine my life. I never want to get so busy that I can’t rest in His presence. I never want to be doing so many good things that I forget why I’m doing them. I never want to have a mile long to-do list and in turn see the most important things suffer. My prayer is for God to help me keep my priorities in check and always be in alignment with His purpose for me.
What about you? Do you have a priority list? Do you have a hard time saying no? Do you see that your priorities are not in alignment with the Word of God? What steps have you or can you take to get your priorities in check? I would love your feedback!
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